I propose that parental alienation should be made illegal and enforced by law.
If you do not know what parental alienation is then consider yourself lucky. For all the other unfortunate parents that have to suffer with it, I just want to say with tears running down my face as I write this, I am so very sorry for the time you have lost with your babies. I would not wish this fate upon my worst enemy. It is a very emotionally taxing guilty process that could have been avoided if these laws were in place. We wouldn't have to sit back and watch other people raise our children and manipulate them to believe that we don't really love them or want to help them.
So if these laws are implemented to protect our babies and enforced by a judge perhaps you will be glad to know that there is still a good chance you may have your children again. Parental alienation is a sin, it is a way to torture parents and use their children as leverage to hit them below the belt when they are down. It is all about getting the upper hand by using power and control tactics amongst the father/ mother/ DCF/ CPS/ Judge/ Abuser.....
This is very important that you recognize the charachter traits of an abuser in this scenario for if you have never been a victim this may potentially catch you off gaurd.
Coercions/Threats
* To abandon you and the kids
* To commit suicide
* To physically hurt you or kids
* To report him/ her to welfare
* To do illegal acts
* Coercing you to drop charges
* Smashing/ vandalized property
* Abusing/ Neglecting children
* Displaying weapons
* Making others believe him/her is crazy
* Playing mind games
* Making him/her constantly feel guilty
* humiliating him/her
* Using the children to relay messages
* Using visitation to harass the alienated parent
*Threatening to move with the children or disclose whereabouts
* Preventing parent from getting or keeping a job.
* Not helping financially with the kids
* Making light of the abuse and not taking concerns seriously. Saying the abuse didn't happen. Shifting responsibility for abusive behavior. Saying the alienated parent caused it.
All the above bullet points were depicted off of the Power and Control Wheel developed by the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project.
False allegations of child abuse is common to get an order that keeps the alleged abusive parent from spending time with the child.
In my case I was victim to all of these scenario's. Our abuser was reflecting all of his anger towards me in a devious way that in a court of law seemed rather convincing. That is what narcissistic people are very good at, believing their own lies to cover their track's. The real scary part was how the Department cooberated with his stories without properly investigating at least five very serious allegations of abuse and neglect that had occurred since our children have been in his custody.
Telling a child to call the alienating parent's significant other "dad" or "mom" is another form of parental alienation. Allowing the non parent to take on parental roles in the child's life. If parental substitution is allowed to continue it may be too late to persuade the child otherwise that the biological parents still very much loves/needs them but that message is not getting to the child because of the mixed signals and blocked messages.
This is another topic all together but I believe we may solve a lot of problems by enforcing adultery laws all across the nation. Here in the United States it is not enforced in certain States and I believe this matter in itself disgraces family and marriage. If there are not going to be fundamental consequences for ruining a family unit then what exactly are we teaching our children? That it is ok to up and leave, start all over, and do this repeatedly instead of working hard on making it work for the best welfare of the children.
The biggest complaint we hear from parents regarding their custody litigations is that repeated violations of orders go unpunished with some parents making a mockery of the courts authority.
Children's repeated refusal to see alienating parent over time. I agree children's wishes should be determinative to a social status extent.
Supervised visitation presents obstacles to rightfully get children to see the alienated parent. Visitation Centers are a gimmick to use against you in court because it's a very uncomfortable situation anyways. A sure sign that parental alienation has taken place is when children refuse to follow court ordered parenting schedules.
Ending the children's contact with their rightful parent fails to justify such a tragic outcome when compared to ending a parent child relationship, the reasons are trivial in addition, even when it is apparent that the other parent has played a significant role in the estrangement of the alienated parent. If this is becoming so obvious in a court of law then why is it being allowed? We shouldn't have to accept this especially when our children's well being is at stake.
I don't think mother's/ father's EVER intend on becoming dead beat mom's/ dad's it just sort of looks that way because some of them have lost their will to survive. That's the cold honest truth folks that some people feel absolutely incomplete and dead without their children. Its like being dismembered. This is very IMPORTANT to those parents that are feeling this pain. NEVER give up on them because they need YOU and will come looking for you.
* Rejected parents should not passively accept the lack of contact these cooling off periods will cause an even bigger rift in the relationship until it will eventually become severed.
It is up to us to keep trying and avoid our relationships with our children from being severed. We do belong in our children's lives . For instance, EVERY night I texted my spouse to have my children call me and they have not returned my call in a month, but one day they will so I keep trying. The day's I can't tell them I love them, I then write to them in a journal or on facebook or in a letter. Never lose hope for they will one day read it and look back knowing that I always was thinking of them, missing them, and loving them from a far.
If you would like to read more about parental alienation a e-book by Dr. Richard A. Warshak called Divorce Poison is where I was able to grasp most of my knowledge on said topic.
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Saturday, January 7, 2017
Monday, September 12, 2016
Introduction to REVOLUTION
Dear fans both near and far,
I am currently writing a novel about my story and I am offering you who want to read it get a sneak peak as to the abuse my family and I have endured.
Much violence, child abuse, neglect, and domestic violence. I have been trying to break this vicious cycle but the broken system put in place to protect us is currently failing us.
I have not seen my children in four months and have not gained any resolution to our nightmare.
I would like to see anyone and everyone to follow me to Capitol Hill to fight for the rights of our children.
PLEASE. Like, follow, pass along, comment, and share my story.
You may view it on upcomingvision.blogspot.com.
I Look forward to all the evangelists and crusaders who have taken the first step in admitting there is something definitely wrong with our Civil Family Court System.
The next step is joining forces with all the parents that are being alienated or one day will face alienation from their children due to unsupportive people.
Innocent people getting no relief from the authorities by the system to protect the kids from being seperated from their parents that they have loved and cherished all their lives.
Email me at Bonniefly69@yahoo.com, call me (727)557-9921,
Facebook me at Bonnie Audette,
Check out Bonnie Audette on You tube, and listen to my music on Soundcloud (Bonnie Audette).
We all need to stick and ban together to save our children whether you have them or not. Someday you may lose custody due to abuse lies and deceit. It's is not worth accepting. There is always a way, don't delay. I'm not. This is my mission everyday is about getting the truth out. Putting my children back in my loving arms.
READ IT! http://upcomingvision.blogspot.com
I am currently writing a novel about my story and I am offering you who want to read it get a sneak peak as to the abuse my family and I have endured.
Much violence, child abuse, neglect, and domestic violence. I have been trying to break this vicious cycle but the broken system put in place to protect us is currently failing us.
I have not seen my children in four months and have not gained any resolution to our nightmare.
I would like to see anyone and everyone to follow me to Capitol Hill to fight for the rights of our children.
PLEASE. Like, follow, pass along, comment, and share my story.
You may view it on upcomingvision.blogspot.com.
I Look forward to all the evangelists and crusaders who have taken the first step in admitting there is something definitely wrong with our Civil Family Court System.
The next step is joining forces with all the parents that are being alienated or one day will face alienation from their children due to unsupportive people.
Innocent people getting no relief from the authorities by the system to protect the kids from being seperated from their parents that they have loved and cherished all their lives.
Email me at Bonniefly69@yahoo.com, call me (727)557-9921,
Facebook me at Bonnie Audette,
Check out Bonnie Audette on You tube, and listen to my music on Soundcloud (Bonnie Audette).
We all need to stick and ban together to save our children whether you have them or not. Someday you may lose custody due to abuse lies and deceit. It's is not worth accepting. There is always a way, don't delay. I'm not. This is my mission everyday is about getting the truth out. Putting my children back in my loving arms.
READ IT! http://upcomingvision.blogspot.com
Wednesday, July 27, 2016
Restrictions on valid Visas when custody battle is prevalent.
Get this,,,
I lost custody to my children and my abuser back on September 2015. Right before that happened I had purchased a visa with my own money so this man could take my two year old son to Nicaragua.
Do you know that man took all my money that we were saving to buy a house and my two year old came back disoriented, a fever of 103.0, bumping into walls, falling over his own two feet, hitting, and misbehaving worse than he ever did. My child was getting services through Early Steps, they did a review and they realized that he reverted back to the same behavior problems they had encountered before. This was all because he spent a whole month in another country with this man and his family without my protection.
I have been made aware of many incidents while he was in their care. That he was hit in the head. I looked up many of the symptoms children have after suffering a concussion and all of them were prevalent from the description I gave earlier to when he returned from that trip. He is still showing signs of developmental delay in his speach and is almost 4 yrs. old now and not potty trained.
My question is....when I addressed the issue about the passport to two judges why did they not revoke it or obtain it from this man who now has custody of my two children and housing in Nicaragua? The first Judge involved in determining if an injunction for protection was necessarily prudent to be put in place to protect my children and myself. I questioned this judge about the passport and the man said that he would forfeit the passport and he has not.
The judge did not grant protection for my kids or I, and the passport was never forfeited by this man, just proving his diregard to authority and what a liar he is. Of course no action was taken on him. So he got away with the passport. This happened on 9/3/15 and ever since then I have been a nervous wreck knowing that my children are being abused and neglected by this man, and he can leave the United States with my baby and I may NEVER see him again.
So I started making some phone calls and spoke to the U.S. Department of State. I was informed that because the children are not in my custody that there was nothing I could do about this valid passport, even though I am the child's mother and I purchased the passport I have no authority to report it stolen. To me this seemed inconceivable.
How can I prevent my child from being a flight risk and why does it seem as if I have no human rights to my children? ALL I am trying to do is protect them from this man who is not even a U.S. citizen and I am. For the first time in my life I felt ashamed to call myself an American.
I was involved in a Dependency case with the State of Florida and instead of investigating all the fabrications spewing from him and his entourage that painted me out to be this bad mom. It was obvious that I was being set up because I am the best mom in the world, just ask my kids who miss me dearly.
Needless to say the State of Florida took his side. Now if any of them actually did their investigative work they would have seen that history was starting to repeat itself, for this man did the same thing to his last baby mama as he did to us. Except his last baby mama was fortunate enough to get a judge that cared enough to get an injunction for protection to stick.
He has a restraining order for assault and battery and destruction of private property in the State of Mass. Except the State of Florida is allowing him to get away with what he does to us on a daily basis, which makes me want to get my kids and run to Mass.
He is known to be a habitual offender, DUI with the kids in the car, intimidation, assault and battery, and suspended license indefinitely. He doesn't respect no one, he is a danger to himself and others, he hits woman and children, and the State of Florida has put four minors in his custody.
Can you tell me what is wrong with this picture? Is the Department of Children and Families stupid or just cruel and don't give a damn? I'm really starting to wonder....
Now I am trapped in this dependency case, which has prevented me from divorcing him and getting any kind of support financially while I am disabled, homeless, and indigent. I am not a drug addict or criminal, or harmed any person my whole entire life. I'm being treated as if I am a criminal without any solid evidence proving I am guilty of any of the false allegations that were made towards me were all heresay.
I have had solid evidence in my person since day 1 exonerating me of these allegations and proving my children are being abused and neglected by this man and his entourage, but nobody will present it because I was assigned a bogus court appointed attorney that could care less.
The judge on this case refuses to have my attorney step down, or allow me to represent myself and this is in violation to my National Human Rights.
I brought the passport topic up before the dependency JUDGE, and this time the judge reprimanded and warned him not to leave the State. So once again there was no disciplinary action taken and he is still in possession of the visa and my children.
His word means nothing and you tell him not to do something he is just going to interpret that as a challenge. I know this man, I had been with him and his abusive family for 11 years. We are talking about wet backs. People who just come and go as they please, don't respect boundaries, and laugh in the face of authority figures and danger.
Now the law and powers that be are giving him free will over my children. This is a mortal sin. I can't sleep at night. I have been tossing and turning for ten months straight thinking I may never see my kid's again.
The Child Protective Services give us no due diligence, Department of Children and Families give me no relief in knowing if my children are alive and safe, the sixth Judicial Civil Court will not honour us any Justice when we have been crying for help for years, and the State Attorneys office has advised me to leave the State of Florida.
I'm about to let you all know something right now, I ain't going nowhere without my kid's. So if you want me gone you better give them back to me because I am not leaving them behind in Florida knowing that he is abusive towards them. I love them with all my heart, I have sacrificed my life for them more than once on many occasions, and I am not about to stop now, because that's what the best mom in the world does. Never gives up fighting for their childrens safety and well being.
Am I Right? Respond Amen if you think so.
I lost custody to my children and my abuser back on September 2015. Right before that happened I had purchased a visa with my own money so this man could take my two year old son to Nicaragua.
Do you know that man took all my money that we were saving to buy a house and my two year old came back disoriented, a fever of 103.0, bumping into walls, falling over his own two feet, hitting, and misbehaving worse than he ever did. My child was getting services through Early Steps, they did a review and they realized that he reverted back to the same behavior problems they had encountered before. This was all because he spent a whole month in another country with this man and his family without my protection.
I have been made aware of many incidents while he was in their care. That he was hit in the head. I looked up many of the symptoms children have after suffering a concussion and all of them were prevalent from the description I gave earlier to when he returned from that trip. He is still showing signs of developmental delay in his speach and is almost 4 yrs. old now and not potty trained.
My question is....when I addressed the issue about the passport to two judges why did they not revoke it or obtain it from this man who now has custody of my two children and housing in Nicaragua? The first Judge involved in determining if an injunction for protection was necessarily prudent to be put in place to protect my children and myself. I questioned this judge about the passport and the man said that he would forfeit the passport and he has not.
The judge did not grant protection for my kids or I, and the passport was never forfeited by this man, just proving his diregard to authority and what a liar he is. Of course no action was taken on him. So he got away with the passport. This happened on 9/3/15 and ever since then I have been a nervous wreck knowing that my children are being abused and neglected by this man, and he can leave the United States with my baby and I may NEVER see him again.
So I started making some phone calls and spoke to the U.S. Department of State. I was informed that because the children are not in my custody that there was nothing I could do about this valid passport, even though I am the child's mother and I purchased the passport I have no authority to report it stolen. To me this seemed inconceivable.
How can I prevent my child from being a flight risk and why does it seem as if I have no human rights to my children? ALL I am trying to do is protect them from this man who is not even a U.S. citizen and I am. For the first time in my life I felt ashamed to call myself an American.
I was involved in a Dependency case with the State of Florida and instead of investigating all the fabrications spewing from him and his entourage that painted me out to be this bad mom. It was obvious that I was being set up because I am the best mom in the world, just ask my kids who miss me dearly.
Needless to say the State of Florida took his side. Now if any of them actually did their investigative work they would have seen that history was starting to repeat itself, for this man did the same thing to his last baby mama as he did to us. Except his last baby mama was fortunate enough to get a judge that cared enough to get an injunction for protection to stick.
He has a restraining order for assault and battery and destruction of private property in the State of Mass. Except the State of Florida is allowing him to get away with what he does to us on a daily basis, which makes me want to get my kids and run to Mass.
He is known to be a habitual offender, DUI with the kids in the car, intimidation, assault and battery, and suspended license indefinitely. He doesn't respect no one, he is a danger to himself and others, he hits woman and children, and the State of Florida has put four minors in his custody.
Can you tell me what is wrong with this picture? Is the Department of Children and Families stupid or just cruel and don't give a damn? I'm really starting to wonder....
Now I am trapped in this dependency case, which has prevented me from divorcing him and getting any kind of support financially while I am disabled, homeless, and indigent. I am not a drug addict or criminal, or harmed any person my whole entire life. I'm being treated as if I am a criminal without any solid evidence proving I am guilty of any of the false allegations that were made towards me were all heresay.
I have had solid evidence in my person since day 1 exonerating me of these allegations and proving my children are being abused and neglected by this man and his entourage, but nobody will present it because I was assigned a bogus court appointed attorney that could care less.
The judge on this case refuses to have my attorney step down, or allow me to represent myself and this is in violation to my National Human Rights.
I brought the passport topic up before the dependency JUDGE, and this time the judge reprimanded and warned him not to leave the State. So once again there was no disciplinary action taken and he is still in possession of the visa and my children.
His word means nothing and you tell him not to do something he is just going to interpret that as a challenge. I know this man, I had been with him and his abusive family for 11 years. We are talking about wet backs. People who just come and go as they please, don't respect boundaries, and laugh in the face of authority figures and danger.
Now the law and powers that be are giving him free will over my children. This is a mortal sin. I can't sleep at night. I have been tossing and turning for ten months straight thinking I may never see my kid's again.
The Child Protective Services give us no due diligence, Department of Children and Families give me no relief in knowing if my children are alive and safe, the sixth Judicial Civil Court will not honour us any Justice when we have been crying for help for years, and the State Attorneys office has advised me to leave the State of Florida.
I'm about to let you all know something right now, I ain't going nowhere without my kid's. So if you want me gone you better give them back to me because I am not leaving them behind in Florida knowing that he is abusive towards them. I love them with all my heart, I have sacrificed my life for them more than once on many occasions, and I am not about to stop now, because that's what the best mom in the world does. Never gives up fighting for their childrens safety and well being.
Am I Right? Respond Amen if you think so.
This is my life in a nutshell!
This goes out to bogus Family Partnership's .
I am putting my phone number out there because I got absolutely nothing to hide and have no shame. I give respect to all people's who are struggling and willing to make an impact to this movement. I am always willing to listen and lend a helping hand.
Bonnie Audette to Family Partnerships:
I call your office and nobody calls me back. Please call me back @ 7275579921.
I have to leave the State of Florida to get my medical needs met because I am epileptic and can't fall off my med plan.This incident has not accomodated me with my disability at all and I have tried to plead this with the judge in court but I am not being fairly represented.
I've been trying to reach someone for weeks with no resolution from the courts or your organization.
Please I came all the way from MA to see my children. Cashed in all my son's bonds and now bankrupt and leaving Thursday.
I am going to make sure everyone around the world knows about the injustice that has been done to me and my family.
The custodial provider is not working. He is just sitting back collecting and neglecting the children's needs.
My mother and I have brand new clothes hanging in their closets waiting for their arrival.
I haven't seen my kids in four months. My mother hasn't seen them in 8 months. This has made us both ill and heartbroken beyond belief.
I thank you GOD that I am no longer displaced, homeless, jobless, penniless, and disabled for a whole year.
Since I moved back to my home in MA now I have a support system with friends, family, affordable healthcare, and resources that provide a remedy to my situation, whereas, if I stayed FL. I would be dead.
I regret bringing my child to FL. for I feel the State of Florida has kidnapped and are withholding my children from me for no reason.
Gregarious misconduct...what does that even mean? And how is a mother supposed react when her 2 year old has marks all over his face by a ex convicted felon who bit her husbands nose off? She goes for the face. She's a bully.
She attacked my baby and the CPI didn't believe me or do his due diligence. Now it has been a year and my children haven't been getting love by their mother.
Who cares???? Nobody...what is done is done. The department made a mistake and now my kids and I are paying for it all because my husband doesn't want to pay child support.
Even though he can work he has a serious drinking problem that prevents him from keeping a job. He also DUI with the kids in the car, has a restraining order from his other babies mama because he is a danger to others and is not allowed around that kid, he is an ex felon, imigrant in possession of my childs valid visa, and he is abusive financially, verbally, mentally, physical, and emotionally towards my kids and my children are developmentally disabled because of him.
I am now dealing with the repercussions from this abuse. My head hurts on a daily basis due to excessive blows to my head from the past 10 years. I can't hear out of my left ear or see clearly. I now have been experiencing Grand mal seizures and disbled due to too many traumactic Brain injuries yet the state of Florida won't deem me as disabled.
I just don't need history to continue to repeat itself with my children. I feel they deserve a better life. I know it may seem unorthodox of me to plaster this over the internet, but I pleaded to DCF before I even lost my children, I have pleaded to CPS already, and Sixth & Thirteenth judicial circuit court with no relief to my dilemma. I filled out all the paperwork and filed all the court appeals and complaints towards the court appointed attorney who failed to defend me for I am innocent. Every police report made was case solved non criminal. I never even was arrested my whole life. I've'done everything by the book with no relief.
I have a Bachelor's Degree in social science and Education and now I can't even teach kids because of how this has tarnished my good name and livelihood. This has ruined me and God forgive me please don't let this ruin my kids lives. They need their mother and I need them.
There has to be a pro bono lawyer out there who can help me fight this. I have searched high and low all over FL with no avail...there is always the issue of money.
I have been displaced, indigent, and homeless doing all the paperwork on my own and the judges took away my rights as a pro se litigant to provide the evidence or get protection. The State Attorney of FL gave me relocation money to leave the state but how can I do that without my children? Well I had no choice and we are still stuck in this vicious cycle. I am not going to relent until I have my babies back. It is not your right TO TAKE MY CHILDREN FROM THEIR MOTHER! Give them back please.
In this area of practice, Title IV-D has ushered in what I call “fictional justice.” It has turned these family tribunals, once labeled “kangaroo courts” by a Supreme Court Justice, into profit centers with an ever-diminishing concern for the true “best interests” of our children. Entire college funds have been drained by unscrupulous lawyers concocting needless issues for fee purposes.
I am putting my phone number out there because I got absolutely nothing to hide and have no shame. I give respect to all people's who are struggling and willing to make an impact to this movement. I am always willing to listen and lend a helping hand.
Bonnie Audette to Family Partnerships:
I call your office and nobody calls me back. Please call me back @ 7275579921.
I have to leave the State of Florida to get my medical needs met because I am epileptic and can't fall off my med plan.This incident has not accomodated me with my disability at all and I have tried to plead this with the judge in court but I am not being fairly represented.
I've been trying to reach someone for weeks with no resolution from the courts or your organization.
Please I came all the way from MA to see my children. Cashed in all my son's bonds and now bankrupt and leaving Thursday.
I am going to make sure everyone around the world knows about the injustice that has been done to me and my family.
The custodial provider is not working. He is just sitting back collecting and neglecting the children's needs.
My mother and I have brand new clothes hanging in their closets waiting for their arrival.
I haven't seen my kids in four months. My mother hasn't seen them in 8 months. This has made us both ill and heartbroken beyond belief.
I thank you GOD that I am no longer displaced, homeless, jobless, penniless, and disabled for a whole year.
Since I moved back to my home in MA now I have a support system with friends, family, affordable healthcare, and resources that provide a remedy to my situation, whereas, if I stayed FL. I would be dead.
I regret bringing my child to FL. for I feel the State of Florida has kidnapped and are withholding my children from me for no reason.
Gregarious misconduct...what does that even mean? And how is a mother supposed react when her 2 year old has marks all over his face by a ex convicted felon who bit her husbands nose off? She goes for the face. She's a bully.
She attacked my baby and the CPI didn't believe me or do his due diligence. Now it has been a year and my children haven't been getting love by their mother.
Who cares???? Nobody...what is done is done. The department made a mistake and now my kids and I are paying for it all because my husband doesn't want to pay child support.
Even though he can work he has a serious drinking problem that prevents him from keeping a job. He also DUI with the kids in the car, has a restraining order from his other babies mama because he is a danger to others and is not allowed around that kid, he is an ex felon, imigrant in possession of my childs valid visa, and he is abusive financially, verbally, mentally, physical, and emotionally towards my kids and my children are developmentally disabled because of him.
I am now dealing with the repercussions from this abuse. My head hurts on a daily basis due to excessive blows to my head from the past 10 years. I can't hear out of my left ear or see clearly. I now have been experiencing Grand mal seizures and disbled due to too many traumactic Brain injuries yet the state of Florida won't deem me as disabled.
I just don't need history to continue to repeat itself with my children. I feel they deserve a better life. I know it may seem unorthodox of me to plaster this over the internet, but I pleaded to DCF before I even lost my children, I have pleaded to CPS already, and Sixth & Thirteenth judicial circuit court with no relief to my dilemma. I filled out all the paperwork and filed all the court appeals and complaints towards the court appointed attorney who failed to defend me for I am innocent. Every police report made was case solved non criminal. I never even was arrested my whole life. I've'done everything by the book with no relief.
I have a Bachelor's Degree in social science and Education and now I can't even teach kids because of how this has tarnished my good name and livelihood. This has ruined me and God forgive me please don't let this ruin my kids lives. They need their mother and I need them.
There has to be a pro bono lawyer out there who can help me fight this. I have searched high and low all over FL with no avail...there is always the issue of money.
I have been displaced, indigent, and homeless doing all the paperwork on my own and the judges took away my rights as a pro se litigant to provide the evidence or get protection. The State Attorney of FL gave me relocation money to leave the state but how can I do that without my children? Well I had no choice and we are still stuck in this vicious cycle. I am not going to relent until I have my babies back. It is not your right TO TAKE MY CHILDREN FROM THEIR MOTHER! Give them back please.
In this area of practice, Title IV-D has ushered in what I call “fictional justice.” It has turned these family tribunals, once labeled “kangaroo courts” by a Supreme Court Justice, into profit centers with an ever-diminishing concern for the true “best interests” of our children. Entire college funds have been drained by unscrupulous lawyers concocting needless issues for fee purposes.
Tuesday, July 26, 2016
Tiffany Trump Said It All......
On July 21, 2016 At the RNC Tiffany Trump couldn't have said it any better....
She gave a great speech the other night at the RNC to support her father. She had spoken eloquently during the RNC speech. She drew a strong cord with me once she said that mothers in America will be supported not shut out? This statement has given me and I am sure many others hope again for a brighter future.
Right now family law is all messed up. A high rate of mother's are being separated from their children in Florida.
Family Partnerships is a hoax....
These visitation centers are ugly and sterile environments.
People who are indigent and disabled should not be losing custody of their kids. This is DISCRIMINATION and is a violation of my national human rights.
My children and I have been neglected and abused by my husband and nobody will believe me now after 10 years. He has shut my 10 and 3 year old out of my life altogether and the department of children and families have assisted in him doing so.
I have never had a criminal background and he has. Where is the Justice in this?
It's been a year and I have no resolution. Will I ever have Justice?
I have a message to spread.
We are Victims of the system........ watch VICTIMS on You Tube. Bonnie Audette.
Will Trump help us?
Here is a prime example. I am trying to schedule a visit with my children and I can't get through to anyone. I am trying my hardest to see them but I have not been able to because my husband is very difficult and will not work with me and this family partnership doesn't either.
I miss my kids. I am afraid I may never see them again.
Finally, I get a response from Family Partnerships through Facebook, mind you I have already called their office and left three message. No one ever answer's or calls me back.
Family Partnerships:
Please call the office at 7274004796. The only thing we can do is reach out to the father. We cannot make him allow you a visit. Court would do that
Bonnie Audette:
There has been no resolve. This is injustice. I haven't seen my children in a year.
Family partnership:
It is inappropriate to do this over face book. Please work with the office staff at the number I gave you.
Bonnie Audette:
When is it appropriate? In court? No one listens to our pleas........in person people don't seem to care that I never see my children. On the news?....would that be appropriate?
There's too many of us to fit into your perfect family pafanership.
There is no partnership HERE you make that abundantly clear..and my children and I suffer because your jurisdictions exists to destroy families, not bring them together.
People don't get to feel comfortable with their mother's and fathers. This helps our families exactly how?
I should have the liberty to watch my children grow, to teach them how to read, Do their laundry, tie their shoes. This is what I have been robbed of. I was an awesome mom.no!
I am an awesome mom. Some day...... I can't say when because that is still unclear, but I will be an awesome mom again.
I miss my babies.....
You have no idea how hard it is for me to live without them. Being disabled and feeling discriminated against, with no resolution by the State of Florida.
I want to care for my own children. This is a sin. Maternal deprivation!
Please... Tiffany... prove through me how powerful the LORD and Trump is.
Make this injustice dissapate.
I want to implement laws that will protect woman and their children. So what has happened to me NEVER happens to anyone else.
Help me do this by fighting beside us with the Parental Civil Rights Movement.
This is happening now!
We need our families together, united, solid, and strong.
Please don't make me become another tragic statistic.
Memento te esse mortalum.
She gave a great speech the other night at the RNC to support her father. She had spoken eloquently during the RNC speech. She drew a strong cord with me once she said that mothers in America will be supported not shut out? This statement has given me and I am sure many others hope again for a brighter future.
Right now family law is all messed up. A high rate of mother's are being separated from their children in Florida.
Family Partnerships is a hoax....
These visitation centers are ugly and sterile environments.
People who are indigent and disabled should not be losing custody of their kids. This is DISCRIMINATION and is a violation of my national human rights.
My children and I have been neglected and abused by my husband and nobody will believe me now after 10 years. He has shut my 10 and 3 year old out of my life altogether and the department of children and families have assisted in him doing so.
I have never had a criminal background and he has. Where is the Justice in this?
It's been a year and I have no resolution. Will I ever have Justice?
I have a message to spread.
We are Victims of the system........ watch VICTIMS on You Tube. Bonnie Audette.
Will Trump help us?
Here is a prime example. I am trying to schedule a visit with my children and I can't get through to anyone. I am trying my hardest to see them but I have not been able to because my husband is very difficult and will not work with me and this family partnership doesn't either.
I miss my kids. I am afraid I may never see them again.
Finally, I get a response from Family Partnerships through Facebook, mind you I have already called their office and left three message. No one ever answer's or calls me back.
Family Partnerships:
Please call the office at 7274004796. The only thing we can do is reach out to the father. We cannot make him allow you a visit. Court would do that
Bonnie Audette:
There has been no resolve. This is injustice. I haven't seen my children in a year.
Family partnership:
It is inappropriate to do this over face book. Please work with the office staff at the number I gave you.
Bonnie Audette:
When is it appropriate? In court? No one listens to our pleas........in person people don't seem to care that I never see my children. On the news?....would that be appropriate?
There's too many of us to fit into your perfect family pafanership.
There is no partnership HERE you make that abundantly clear..and my children and I suffer because your jurisdictions exists to destroy families, not bring them together.
People don't get to feel comfortable with their mother's and fathers. This helps our families exactly how?
I should have the liberty to watch my children grow, to teach them how to read, Do their laundry, tie their shoes. This is what I have been robbed of. I was an awesome mom.no!
I am an awesome mom. Some day...... I can't say when because that is still unclear, but I will be an awesome mom again.
I miss my babies.....
You have no idea how hard it is for me to live without them. Being disabled and feeling discriminated against, with no resolution by the State of Florida.
I want to care for my own children. This is a sin. Maternal deprivation!
Please... Tiffany... prove through me how powerful the LORD and Trump is.
Make this injustice dissapate.
I want to implement laws that will protect woman and their children. So what has happened to me NEVER happens to anyone else.
Help me do this by fighting beside us with the Parental Civil Rights Movement.
This is happening now!
We need our families together, united, solid, and strong.
Please don't make me become another tragic statistic.
Memento te esse mortalum.
Sunday, May 22, 2016
Feeling Overwhelmed....
Dear LORD?
How am I to ever get through this father GOD?
Answer me, O Lord, for your steadfast love is good; according to your abundant mercy, turn to me. Hide not your face from your servant; for I am in distress; make haste to answer me; ransom me because of my enemies!
Psalm 69: 16-18
Who else feels they have been thrown under the bus with your kid's due to greedy, self absorbed, despiteful people that could care less about you or your kid's, so they use your kid's to get to you? If this has happened to you comment back AMEN and make an oath to not tolerate it any longer!!.....
How am I to ever get through this father GOD?
Answer me, O Lord, for your steadfast love is good; according to your abundant mercy, turn to me. Hide not your face from your servant; for I am in distress; make haste to answer me; ransom me because of my enemies!
Psalm 69: 16-18
Who else feels they have been thrown under the bus with your kid's due to greedy, self absorbed, despiteful people that could care less about you or your kid's, so they use your kid's to get to you? If this has happened to you comment back AMEN and make an oath to not tolerate it any longer!!.....
Monday, May 9, 2016
Phone contact privileges during dependency cases.
ANOTHER NIGHT WITHOUT HEARING FROM MY CHILDREN....DON'T KNOW IF THEY ARE HEALTHY, IN THIS COUNTRY, HAPPY, OR ALIVE.
I believe this is every parents worst nightmare, and this is what I have been facing for the past 10 months. I can't answer any of these questions myself... nor can anyone person from the department, the extended family, not even my children know what is happening here. Nor do I have the luxury of trying to explain to my children. They are only hearing one side of the story and so is the court. This is insane.
I can understand if I abused my kids, neglected them, OR did awful things to them,but I haven't!
All I did was worry about them,try to protect my kid's, and love my babies wholeheartedly.
I don't even know why they took my kid's from me???? That's how sad this is. It seems as if my children have been literally kidnapped because the system has done nothing to resolve our problems or given me any relief in having contact with my children.
What is happening is......... Parental alienation.
No resolution, or reunification apparent in my dependency case. I am so worried and a nervous wreck constantly...it never relents.
Please understand..See when you have witnessed abuse for many years and finally want to tell someone....anyone.....what has happened in the past, present, and what you know will be your children's future if you don't do something quick...your reluctant, because you know people will only judge you and persecute you. Even a child who doesn't know enough to manipulate or lie is defenseless against people who judge and have authority, power, and control.
So where does that leave us vulnerable people who are battered and put down in a state of fear and confusion? Sorry to tell you this, but unfortunately in my experience, this outcome puts you at a disadvantage.
Who are they going to believe?
A child who can't speak...... A child who was not taken seriously before......... and A battered mother who is finally speaking up for herself... OR
A whole entourage of people with money and lies?
I guess it don't take a rocket scientist to answer this question.
My advice personally to any mother's or father's who are going through a separation or divorce. ALWAYS have an escape plan, and if you can prevent it at all never get the authorities or DCF, CPS, CPI involved. They don't care about you and your kid's as much as they should. They are the wolves and your the shepherd so do your best to handle the situation the best way you know how without interference. Don't let anyone into your home without a warrant. Even if you feel you have nothing to worry about or hide....someone could be setting you up. People can be real cruel and you may not see it coming.
Now ten months have dragged on and I can't even hear my kid's voices or see their face, or give them anything to show I love them. I am sensitive and very hurt. I have been this whole time. Every day between 8-9pm I pick up the phone and dial that mans phone number and it goes straight to voicemail my heart breaks to the point.I don't want to pick up the phone ever again. It becomes an evil game that tortures my heart.
Imagine calling your mother everyday and she never picks up. Doesn't make you feel very loved now does it? See that's what I had to face my whole life and even though I am a grown women now it still bothers me. It makes me feel worthless and abandoned. This feeling I never wanted my kids to ever feel and now they are being forced to by this man and the system.
This is why I must implement a law in the judicial civil family court system to make it mandatory once children are separated from a parent to have a daily phone contact plan adjudicated by the court regardless of crime. Children be given government phones or have daily access to a phone in case of emergency or when they feel the need to talk to their parents.
This sort of contact should never be deprived of a child due to the need for security and well-being of each child.
What is it teaching children when this law is not being upheld? It is teaching them that they are not valued, and their security doesn't matter. When one parent alienates a child from another parent it causes animosity amongst everyone involved and severs relationships that are significant to the welfare of each human being to feeling whole. For life would cease to exist if two people were not involved and by GOD it should take two people to put aside their differences to raising that child to become a man and woman who should understand the value of family.
I believe this is every parents worst nightmare, and this is what I have been facing for the past 10 months. I can't answer any of these questions myself... nor can anyone person from the department, the extended family, not even my children know what is happening here. Nor do I have the luxury of trying to explain to my children. They are only hearing one side of the story and so is the court. This is insane.
I can understand if I abused my kids, neglected them, OR did awful things to them,but I haven't!
All I did was worry about them,try to protect my kid's, and love my babies wholeheartedly.
I don't even know why they took my kid's from me???? That's how sad this is. It seems as if my children have been literally kidnapped because the system has done nothing to resolve our problems or given me any relief in having contact with my children.
What is happening is......... Parental alienation.
No resolution, or reunification apparent in my dependency case. I am so worried and a nervous wreck constantly...it never relents.
Please understand..See when you have witnessed abuse for many years and finally want to tell someone....anyone.....what has happened in the past, present, and what you know will be your children's future if you don't do something quick...your reluctant, because you know people will only judge you and persecute you. Even a child who doesn't know enough to manipulate or lie is defenseless against people who judge and have authority, power, and control.
So where does that leave us vulnerable people who are battered and put down in a state of fear and confusion? Sorry to tell you this, but unfortunately in my experience, this outcome puts you at a disadvantage.
Who are they going to believe?
A child who can't speak...... A child who was not taken seriously before......... and A battered mother who is finally speaking up for herself... OR
A whole entourage of people with money and lies?
I guess it don't take a rocket scientist to answer this question.
My advice personally to any mother's or father's who are going through a separation or divorce. ALWAYS have an escape plan, and if you can prevent it at all never get the authorities or DCF, CPS, CPI involved. They don't care about you and your kid's as much as they should. They are the wolves and your the shepherd so do your best to handle the situation the best way you know how without interference. Don't let anyone into your home without a warrant. Even if you feel you have nothing to worry about or hide....someone could be setting you up. People can be real cruel and you may not see it coming.
Now ten months have dragged on and I can't even hear my kid's voices or see their face, or give them anything to show I love them. I am sensitive and very hurt. I have been this whole time. Every day between 8-9pm I pick up the phone and dial that mans phone number and it goes straight to voicemail my heart breaks to the point.I don't want to pick up the phone ever again. It becomes an evil game that tortures my heart.
Imagine calling your mother everyday and she never picks up. Doesn't make you feel very loved now does it? See that's what I had to face my whole life and even though I am a grown women now it still bothers me. It makes me feel worthless and abandoned. This feeling I never wanted my kids to ever feel and now they are being forced to by this man and the system.
This is why I must implement a law in the judicial civil family court system to make it mandatory once children are separated from a parent to have a daily phone contact plan adjudicated by the court regardless of crime. Children be given government phones or have daily access to a phone in case of emergency or when they feel the need to talk to their parents.
This sort of contact should never be deprived of a child due to the need for security and well-being of each child.
What is it teaching children when this law is not being upheld? It is teaching them that they are not valued, and their security doesn't matter. When one parent alienates a child from another parent it causes animosity amongst everyone involved and severs relationships that are significant to the welfare of each human being to feeling whole. For life would cease to exist if two people were not involved and by GOD it should take two people to put aside their differences to raising that child to become a man and woman who should understand the value of family.
Saturday, April 23, 2016
What are our National Human Rights???
Every last cent I made has gone towards trying to get my kids back in my life. This has entailed legal fees, evidence, transportation, and subpeonas so I can get my kids free from torture and safely with me. As you may be well aware of the Karmic debt I have accrued already. I have been this way for almost a year now. All of you have been pretty insightful and aware of my situation so I believe it may come as no surprise to all of you to know that I am homeless, jobless, disabled, and without a dollar to my name. Otherwise, I think I would have made more progress by now. I'm not asking for any money.
All I am asking for is your heart and support in this movement to transcend all the way to Capitol Hill. That's where we all need to go in the near future if anything is ever to change. That is where we shall overcome someday for the government to finally be able to take us seriously. It is our National Human Right......it is called the right to public assembly. We have the right as people to meet our friends and to work together in peace to defend our rights.
Unfortunately, nobody can make us join a group if we don't want to. Just like no one can squeeze blood from a stone no matter how hard one may try. I'm only asking and praying that you choose to do GOD's work, the LORD almighty really does appreciate the help and support. Hopefully in the near future I will be successful in my endeavors and end up being very rich. I will make a hefty donation for this cause. My calling is to finally send a message to all the people around the World from GOD that we are all human and we deserve to be treated as such.
The greed and tyranny in the hearts of many of the tribunals are overstepping their boundaries and taking advantage of many vulnerable persons and their families and I know it is my mission right now to try and put an end to this tyranny especially for women and their young. The Civil Judicial Circuit Courts family law divisions in particular have been tearing apart families for quite some time. It is a shame that the injustice in our justice system has been carrying on for quite this long.
I know that this may be a major feat. We are talking about a Parental Civil Rights MOVEMENT. If anyone can express how awful this is in a social media platform and preach to all the parent's and children of today to take a stand for their National Human Rights as a nation..I know I can and I will! This is something I can be proud to say when it is all
said and done. " Did I just do that? No WE did it."This is not something one person can accomplish alone. I'm not doing this for the money or attention. I am doing this for freedom, the pursuit of happiness, the children and families who suffer on a daily basis, the cause, message, and most importantly GOD.
Ms. Audette
Exodus- Movement of the people.
As you all may be well aware of the fact I am in Karmic debt already. I have been this way for almost a year now. Every last cent I had has gone towards evidence, legal fees, lawyers, and paper copies of every injunction, divorce, and paternity order I have submitted in hopes of releasing my children from torture and in my loving arms.
You have been pretty insightful and aware of my situation, so I believe you must know that I am homeless, jobless, disabled, and without a dollar to my name. I am not asking for charitable donations. What I am asking, is for your love and support for the Parental Civil Rights Movement. It is our National Human Right to public assembly. We all have the right to meet our friends and to work together in peace to defend our rights.
We shall overcome someday, even if we have to get results by marching up to Capitol Hill ourselves. Nobody can make us join a group if we don't want to. Unfortunately, no one can squeeze blood from a stone either, no matter how hard one may try. But, JUST about any judge can take your children from you and place them with an abuser, sexual predator, or felon and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. Unless we GET the law on our side and ignite due justice in the injustice that is happening in our family courts today.
I'm asking on behalf of all the vulnerable children who are falling victim to this broken system and craving that love they need from their mommy's and daddy's. The LORD really does appreciate the help and support in doing his work for his children for we are all GOD's children. Someday, hopefully in the near future, I will be successful in my endevors and end up being very rich. I will make a hefty donation towards the Parental Civil Rights Movement and many other causes. My mission has been to finally send a message to all the people around the World from GOD that he is understanding that we are all human and we deserve to be treated as such.
The greed and tyranny in the hearts of many of the tribunals are overstepping their boundaries and taking advantage of many vulnerable persons and their families. I know it is my calling right now to try and put an end to this tyranny, especially for women and their young. The Civil Judicial Circuit Court family law divisions in particular have been tearimg apart families for quite some time. It is a shame that the injustice in our justice system has been carrying on for quite this long. I know that this may be a major feat. We are talking about a Parental Civil Rights MOVEMENT. Obviously, something that will never be accomplished with just me alone.
If anyone can express how awful this is in a social media platform and preach to all the parent's and children of today to take a stand for their National Human Rights as a nation..I know I can and I will. Question is.....Who's coming with me? Who's going to take this more seriously? Who's going to not stop at nothing to make a difference?
This is.something I aim to be proud of accomplishing when it is all said and done. " Did I do that? No, WE did it!" I'm not doing this for money or attention. I am doing it for freedom, the pursuit of happiness, the children and families who suffer on a daily basis, the cause, message, and most importantly, GOD.
Ms. Audette
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