The Originals

What is the current theme?

Honestly, what I see is the family infrastructure and involvement of nature and true love.

Where did that originally form? Some people may say when we were created and formed by GOD. Other's might add when we were conceived scientifically out of lovemaking. Still many would argue when you were born and placed in my arms and nurtured and fed. Not everybody is so lucky to have these upbringing.

There was an influx of tyranny and misguided agendas of others that broke down this confined love and law of nature.

This has been evolving since the American Indians, the original inhabitants of this land were scattered by the narcissistic wigs of our surrounding countries. They have seperated our ancestors long enough to fill their pockets with their stupid little trinkets. I am part Cherokee Indian and half French Canadian and half mutt. Not like this is a personal vendetta or anything, but originally being a decedent of Boston I am well aware of what my people had to overcome to establish themselves on this land. Nothing came easy. Our family was torn apart by the government in many of ways, but we always found a way back to one another. That rift in our relationships could never be replaced. It was as if a piece of ourselves was forever missing and that is exactly what takes place. Failure to thrive. We hold ourselves back from being whole when a person or an element in our lives is missing.

This process has not stopped. Actually it has become a monster. It has grown to become a bystandered effect amongst our nations and at no point should have ever became exceptable. These are not just any people. They are vulnerable, innocent, scared, young, and loving children.

THIS IS IN VIOLATION OF OUR NATIONAL HUMAN RIGHTS

What we have here should be a PARENTAL CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENT to put a STOP to the aiding and abetting of child abduction, child slavery, sex trafficking, human trafficking, forced adoption, Title lV-D Child Support Standards Act, and false reports and allegations that are not being properly investigated and the millions of children that are being held from their loving parent's and traumatized due to heresay and now are currently displaced due to negligence on the department.

This is a welfare system that is getting out of hand and is capitalizing on the failure of the family infrastructure and divorce. The parents rights are being violated but ultimately it is the children's rights for they have absolutely no say at all and it is their futures that are to be determined.

Why shouldn't the children have a say?

Their lives basically lay in the balance of a judge that knows very little about the circumstances and well being of the child. They go by only what the department is telling them provided that the department even does their due diligence and most likely have already formulated a biased opinion based off of heresay and very little evidence because they could really care less and have heavy case load's.

So would it not be beneficial to know what is in the best interests of the child by asking them?

I feel this method would be less invasive and traumatizing for a child then keeping them apart from a loving parent for months or years at a time based on a hunch from a CPI.

Kid's  are not to be trampled over, and should have a chance to be justified just like everybody else.

Kid's  are not to be displaced, and should have a right to choose where they want to live.

Kid's  are not to be kept as slaves and have a right to be loved and free.

Kid's  are not to be used as commodities and have a right to be whole and feel as if they belong to a unit because of their priceless value to the whole not what they are worth in measure to greedy people.

Children should not be subjected to these unlawful game's. For the simple fact that these games should be abolished. They are meaningless and their tactlessness should be scrutinized. I am even astonished that these arenas still exist for it is quite obvious to people by now that it is not serving the higher good of the people . If anything this system is just tearing families apart.

Honestly if I ever get my family back together I am going to move somewhere scarce for I am really frightened as to how many government officials do nothing to fix the issue's at hand in our own country alone yet they want us to go and fight other people's wars. NO! let's fix the ones happening in our own backyards first. Let's show our kids that our country is worth fighting for to begin with. Can we build a better tomorrow for our children? Let us be there for our children so we can show them the way. Drop all judgements......allow parents to show their kids the way to a brighter future. To all the future kings and queen's of tomorrow.

May the road rise up to meet you
May the wind be always on your back
May the sun shine warm on your face
The rains fall soft upon your fields
And until we meet again
Again
Until we meet again
May GOD hold you in the palm of his Hands

May God be with you and bless you,
May you see your children's children.
May you be poor misfortune,
Rich in blessings,
May you know nothing but happiness From this day forward.

May the road rise to meet you
May the wind always be at your back,
May the warm rays of sun fall upon your home,
And may the hand of a friend always be near.

May green be the grass you walk on,
May blue be the sky above you,
May pure be the joys that surround you,
May true be the tears that love you

Amen

Parental Alienation Should Be Made Illegal!

I propose that parental alienation should be made illegal and enforced by law.

If you do not know what parental alienation is then consider yourself lucky. For all the other unfortunate parents that have to suffer with it, I just want to say with tears running down my face as I write this, I am so very sorry for the time you have lost with your babies. I would not wish this fate upon my worst enemy. It is a very emotionally taxing guilty process that could have been avoided if these laws were in place. We wouldn't have to sit back and watch other people raise our children and manipulate them to believe that we don't really love them or want to help them.

So if these laws are implemented to protect our babies and enforced by a judge perhaps you will be glad to know that there is still a good chance you may have your children again. Parental alienation is a sin, it is a way to torture parents and use their children as leverage to hit them below the belt when they are down. It is all about getting the upper hand by using power and control tactics amongst the father/ mother/ DCF/ CPS/ Judge/ Abuser.....

This is very important that you recognize the charachter traits of an abuser in this scenario for if you have never been a victim this may potentially catch you off gaurd.

Coercions/Threats
* To abandon you and the kids
* To commit suicide
* To physically hurt you or kids
* To report him/ her to welfare
* To do illegal acts
* Coercing you to drop charges
* Smashing/ vandalized property
* Abusing/ Neglecting children
* Displaying weapons
* Making others believe him/her is crazy
* Playing mind games
* Making him/her constantly feel guilty
* humiliating him/her
* Using the children to relay messages
* Using visitation to harass the alienated parent
*Threatening to move with the children or disclose whereabouts
* Preventing parent from getting or keeping a job.
* Not helping financially with the kids
* Making light of the abuse and not taking concerns seriously. Saying the abuse didn't happen. Shifting responsibility for abusive behavior. Saying the alienated parent caused it.

All the above bullet points were depicted off of the Power and Control Wheel developed by the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project.

False allegations of child abuse is common to get an order that keeps the alleged abusive parent from spending time with the child.

In my case I was victim to all of these scenario's. Our abuser was reflecting all of his anger towards me in a devious way that in a court of law seemed rather convincing. That is what narcissistic people are very good at, believing their own lies to cover their track's.  The real scary part was how the Department cooberated with his stories without properly investigating at least five very serious allegations of abuse and neglect that had occurred since our children have been in his custody.

Telling a child to call the alienating parent's significant other "dad" or "mom" is another form of parental alienation.  Allowing the non parent to take on parental roles in the child's life. If parental substitution is allowed to continue it may be too late to persuade the child otherwise that the biological parents still very much loves/needs them but that message is not getting to the child because of the mixed signals and blocked messages.

This is another topic all together but I believe we may solve a lot of problems by enforcing adultery laws all across the nation. Here in the United States it is not enforced in certain States and I believe this matter in itself disgraces family and marriage.  If there are not going to be fundamental consequences for ruining a family unit then what exactly are we teaching our children? That it is ok to up and leave, start all over, and do this repeatedly instead of working hard on making it work for the best welfare of the children.

The biggest complaint we hear from parents regarding their custody litigations is that repeated violations of orders go unpunished with some parents making a mockery of the courts authority.

Children's repeated refusal to see alienating parent over time. I agree children's wishes should be determinative to a social status extent.
Supervised visitation presents obstacles to rightfully get children to see the alienated parent. Visitation Centers are a gimmick to use against you in court because it's a very uncomfortable situation anyways. A sure sign that parental alienation has taken place is when children refuse to follow court ordered parenting schedules.

Ending the children's contact with their rightful parent fails to justify such a tragic outcome when compared to ending a parent child relationship,  the reasons are trivial in addition, even when it is apparent that the other parent has played a significant role in the estrangement of the alienated parent. If this is becoming so obvious in a court of law then why is it being allowed? We shouldn't have to accept this especially when our children's well being is at stake.

I don't think mother's/ father's EVER intend on becoming dead beat mom's/ dad's it just sort of looks that way because some of them have lost their will to survive. That's the cold honest truth folks that some people feel absolutely incomplete and dead without their children. Its like being dismembered. This is very IMPORTANT to those parents that are feeling this pain. NEVER give up on them because they need YOU and will come looking for you.

* Rejected parents should not passively accept the lack of contact these cooling off periods will cause an even bigger rift in the relationship until it will eventually become severed.

It is up to us to keep trying and avoid our relationships with our children from being severed. We do belong in our children's lives . For instance, EVERY night I texted my spouse to have my children call me and they have not returned my call in a month, but one day they will so I keep trying. The day's I can't tell them I love them,  I then write to them in a journal or on facebook or in a letter. Never lose hope for they will one day read it and look back knowing that I always was thinking of them, missing them, and loving them from a far.

If you would like to read more about parental alienation a e-book by Dr. Richard A. Warshak called Divorce Poison is where I was able to grasp most of my knowledge on said topic.

Where is the Justice in this world?

Text message to custodial parent and our abuser.


I see how it is..One phone call every other week maybe..Sure who talks to their mothers? They don't need to talk to their mother on the holidays, or birthdays, and Christmas.

This is NOT necessary and UNACCEPTABLE.
So at this rate I see my kid's Once a month, if I am lucky that the social worker doesn't forbid it again.

Do you know in the National Human Rights handbook I have here it states that the United States shall guarantee to every State in this Union a Republican Form of Government, and shall protect each of them against Invasion; and on Application of the Legislature, or of the Executive (when the Legislature cannot be convened). Yeah, well that Right of mine is currently being violated.

I have been calling, confirming and showing up to the appointments ahead of time? And the kid's have not been there. 3 times...
5 times if you count their Dr. Visits this has happened. Then I have had to wait another 30 days and this is out of my control. You know I would NEVER let the kid's down on purpose.

I hate myself for them thinking I am failing them. I am NOT!... I have done everything in my power. The DCF is fucking with me and it is just cruel.


Using my babies as pawns in this vicious vendetta to break me and millions of other mother's that are losing custody at an alarming rate down.

You have really cut me out and my parental rights haven't been terminated, but it sure does seem that way.

None of the adjudication is being honored.

I can't motion a hearing because they won't let me defend myself.

They Thirteenth Judicial Circuit District Court won't even let me divorce your nasty ass. So I am stuck being married to you.

Thanks for hurting me in the worst way imaginable. My babies? Really?? Your great for giving this social worker and your paramour the liberty for deciding what is best for our children when you know full right well that my kid's are in the best care when they are with me. I have always been a great mom. This is so unfair, wrong, and parental alienation.

Zero Tolerance my ass DCF!

DCF HAS DiscriminatED by taking advantage of me due to my disability. This is negligence by the department and courts.

Inequality by getting funding through the fathers federal funding grant,a biased set up to keep their shelters, programs, and poor children deprived of love by one side of their family.


Violation on our National Human Rights which states in Article 16:

1. Men and woman of full age, without any limitation due to race, nationality or religion, have the right to marry and to found a family. They are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution.

2. Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intendinf spouses.

3. The family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society and the State.

Article 12

No one shall be subjected to arbitrary interference with his/her privacy, familt, hime, or correspondence, nor to attacks upon his or her honour and reputation. Everyone has the right to be the protection of the law against such interference or attacks.

Article 17

1.Everyone has the right to own property alone as well as in association with others.

2.NO ONE shall be arbitrarily deprived of his/her property.

American Declaration of Independence Thomas Jefferson states,

"The care of human life and happiness, and not their destruction, is the first and only legitimate object of good government."

I think he was onto something and I think we can all agree that's why this declaration was patented and signed,
was implemented, and became know as law to protect the people from dishonor, violence, and demolition of the pursuit of all hahappiness

So why are these laws not being abided in the justice department? Why are they getting away with it? It is time WE as the PEOPLE do something about it!


Our Constitutional amendment Article 4
Section: 4 states;

The United States shall guarantee to every State in this Union a Republican Form of Government, and shall protect each of them against Invasion; and on Application of the Legislature, or of the Executive (when the Legislature cannot be convened) against domestic Violence.

We all should be treated as equals. The law is already written. Where are the judges who should be enforcing them?

What ever happened to justice and evidence that should be able to be presented by the defendant. I never got that...


I NEVER HARMED MY KIDS!..WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO US???

THEY NEED THEIR MOTHER'S LOVE.